I’ve changed my mind on this post at least 6 times. wavering between “I’m going to stop doing obedience with this dog” and “I’m going to work harder at this”.
I’ve been trying to make this blog a real diary of training, so I have to include the negatives and self-doubt that goes along with it all.
After the Princess got two more RAE legs I was very depressed. Partially because I was so unhappy about our performance, but mostly for other (non dog) reasons. I’m seriously talking depressed too, not just a little sad.
So, I was going to quit. She is so unhappy in the ring situation. Why should I make her do it just for me? Am I that vain? (probably yes:-). What is the point?
But then I argue with myself. Is this just because I’m a quitter and the going got tough? Shouldn’t I be able to figure out something that will improve the training and trialing?
This has gone on for quite a few weeks, and since I couldn’t decide, I didn’t post anything.
However, I do want to finish the RAE, even if we never go on for the Open obedience title. So the other day I went to a club run through. I actually mis-read the information on this, and thought I needed to go before 10am in order to register for Rally. Actually, Rally was running in the afternoon, not the morning. So I got there at 9am and would have to wait until 1pm to run a rally course. Er…. no. My other option was enter Utility or Open instead. So I entered Open.
Luckily, the person calling commands was relaxed and supportive – letting everyone have “do overs” and not worrying about the amount of time we took up. whew! Of course rewards were also allowed.
So I kept the heeling really simple – just tried to reward her when she came up into position. She improved and actually was pretty good on the figure 8. But still essentially stressed.
DOR – not stressed for the drop (we used our target), and only missed the second call in when the judge walked up behind her to helpfully pick up the target. We tried it again without that distraction and she was fine. She’s dropping a little past the target, but I’m consciously letting that slide.
Retrieves – did not go out on the first command. But I forgot my trick of just saying “OK” instead of “get it”. Brought it back nicely once she got it. My throw needed a lot of work <g>. I’d like a LOT more drive on the way out.
BJ – great – still tossing food.
Stays – YES, I DID STAYS. The main reason I probably will never show her in Open is the stays. She’s stressed in then environment in general and I can’t, in good conscience, leave her when she’s that stressed. But, I do want the RAE without losing 10 points for breaking the honor, so I figured this was a good chance to stay with her for a nice 3 minute sit. She was the BEST she has ever been on a stay. Yes, she did try to lie down at about 1.5 minutes, but that was because she was relaxed! Her down stay (5 minutes) was perfect.
So why was she so relaxed in the stays? Was it because I took her mat (instead of a crate) in the building and had just spent an hour rewarding her for lying down on it? Was it because she had a play meeting with a friendly dog? (other dogs always make her feel better). Was it because I know we aren’t ever going to do them “for real” so I was more relaxed?
I’ll probably never know.
At the moment, I’m still not going to ever show her in Open. But I do plan to keep training. Maybe my goal should be “perfect at a match”.
Currently we are still “started”.
The Princess comments: let it go mom, smell the roses.
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